things that can look an awful lot like each other, but are confused at your peril

confidence <=> cheerful fatalism

christianity <=> xenophobia

generosity <=> control freakishness

forgiveness <=> smugness

anger <=> resentment

hard-working <=> loud

smart <=> good looking

docility <=> contentment

luminous skin <=> oily skin

moral centeredness <=> solipsism

lazy <=> afraid